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Only God Can Draw the Heart 

No one can come to Me unless the Father who sent Me draws him; and I will raise him up at the last day. John 6:44

When we love someone deeply, we often carry the weight of their salvation on our shoulders. Whether it’s a spouse, a child, or a friend, we plead, we counsel, we strive—trying everything to lead them to Jesus. But ultimately, only God can draw a heart.

Freedom from the Burden of Control

This truth doesn’t absolve us from praying, loving, or sharing. It frees us from control, and the weight of responsibility. It reminds us that our job is to point to the altar—but the fire comes from heaven. You are not the Savior. You are the servant, standing in the gap, believing for the one.

Trusting God to do the Drawing

Let today be the day you release the burden and renew your faith in the One who draws hearts. He sees them. He loves them more than you ever could. Your prayers matter. Your love matters. But salvation is His work. So, stand firm in faith, not in striving. Keep pointing to Jesus, and trust that the same God who reached you is still reaching them—even now.

Closing Prayer

Jesus, I lift up the one I love. You know their heart. You see their pain. I surrender the burden to fix or convince them, and I place them fully into Your hands. Draw them with Your Spirit. Encounter them with Your love. I trust You. In Jesus’ name, amen.

 

Reflection Questions:

  1. Who are you carrying a burden for right now?
  2. What does releasing control look like in that relationship?
  3. How can you faithfully intercede without striving?


    For more information:
    Read: To Love and To Be Loved: https://lisa-schwarz.com/to-love-and-to-be-loved-book/

    Watch: To Love and To Be Loved Conference: https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLaMLikcR9YvaXl2cXMCKReRkp7A7Rwnxw&si=8JN3LChwWYSZqP6F